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11 Things I Choose to Focus On and You Should Too
Happy Valentine’s Day to all my long distance grandparenting friends out there!
After mailing off my granddaughter’s little Valentine’s box years ago, I decided to count the ways that I loved long distance grandparenting (but yes, I would’ve traded it all if they could have just lived next door).
Making a list of the things I truly enjoyed as a long-distance grandparent (and still do) helped me focus on the positive instead of focusing on another holiday spent virtually.
I won’t sugarcoat it. I’ve been a long-distance grandparent for five years and there are plenty of days I miss them terribly.
I’ve also discovered how to remain an active role in their lives.
It starts with your mindset. I know it’s hard (especially during the early days) but focus on the GOOD!
In no particular order, I have grown to love the following:
- checking the weather for the town they live in
- my daughter sharing the daily report from daycare
- hearing “Amma, can we read a book?” when I answer the phone
- enjoying snacks together while video chatting
- countdowns until the next visit
- sending special notes in the mail (check out the Mail Membership – it completely changed my ‘wish it were easier’ thinking into back-and-forth connections every month!)
- watching and rewatching the latest pictures and videos sent our way
- hearing about how they are growing and developing
- going on a video tour of her room
- planning for the next road trip to see them
- blowing kisses and saying “love you” at the end of a call.
Are there things that came to mind as you read that list? I encourage you to write them down! Re-visit that list when you need a reminder.
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I hope that even as you are miles away from your grandkids, you will celebrate the special things that still happen in your relationship.
Choose to love being a long-distance grandparent and invest your time to bridge the distance!